Pregnancy Survey!
Got this fun pregnancy survey from Ali on her blog! Loved
her answers and decided to do my own! :)
1. What name did you and your spouse call your baby before
you knew the gender?
I called her "Squishy" from Finding Nemo. Hubby
just said "baby" for the most part, but now calls her
"Peanut" :)
2. When did "Oh-my-gosh-we're-having-a-baby"
really sink it?
It still hasn't completely sunk in yet! I mean I get moments
of "we're really having a baby!" like when we saw her for the first
time on an ultrasound and when I feel her really moving and grooving! But
honestly, I don't think it'll be fully real until we have her home.
3. When you think of yourself as a mom, what's the first
thing to come to mind?
gentleness and hopefully learning from my mom's mistakes.
4. Is your nursery complete? What's the theme and what do
you have left to complete?
Almost done, we just have to finish cleaning up the side
opposite of the crib and the closet... that and add some art to the walls.
There's really no theme, they were all too expensive. SO I decided on PINK! :)
5. List 5 qualities you hope your baby will possess:
1. easy going, 2. good sleeper, 3. happy, 4. good cuddler,
5. her daddy's eyes
6. What's your ideal labor experience?
painless, 1-2 hour labor total and to have her out in 2-3
pushes. Yeah, right like that's going to happen! LOL
7. List 5 things that have changed in your relationship with
your spouse since you've been pregnant:
We talk about being parents a lot more now. Really the
changes that have happened between us have come as a result of hubby's new job,
not my being pregnant.
8. List 5 things you think will change once your baby
arrives:
#1. less sleep
#2. Less free time to just surf
the internet/play games #3. Less quiet time #4.
More music #5. more
dancing/walking/bouncing!
9. Where do you think you'll be when you go into labor? Why?
hopefully at home.. it's why I only took online classes this
semester!
10. Have you been talking to your baby? Playing music?
I do sometimes, mostly I just think to her. Hubby talks to
her at least once a week. We've played music for her through headphones on my
tummy only once, but she hears all the music I play in the car and such so
that's good.
11. In what ways do you hope your baby is like your spouse?
Oh his eyes, his beautiful skin tone and ability to tan not
burn. His easy going-ness, his fun loving nature... his awesome math skills
12. In what ways do you hope your baby is like you?
independence, love of animals especially cats, love of
learning, musical interests, love for acting and being on stage... creativeness
and artistic nature.
13. How long will you wait for the next baby, or if this is
your last one, why/why not?
I am not sure if we will be blessed with another baby. I
know I do not want them very close together, but not terribly far apart.. maybe
2-3 years. I don't want to get pregnant after 35 years old (I have about 6
years left) so we'll see how that works out for us. *It's higher risk of downs
after 35, plus it's more dangerous for me so I just don't want to risk it...*
14. What kind of grandparents do you think your baby will
have?
Well I wish I could say she will have grandparents like
hubby and I have, but unfortunately both our father's have passed away and
hubby doesn't speak to his mother.. that leaves my mom. My crazy,
overemotional, always thinks she's right even when proven wrong mom. She's also
got quite a lot of health issues as well as a drinking problem.. so I don't
know if our baby will have any grandparents at all unfortunately.
15. Who will be with you during labor? Who will visit you in
the hospital during your recovery?
My hubby and that's it. I told my mom she could come visit
after I'm in recovery but I don't want anyone else there really.
16. How much will you tell your baby (child, teenager) about
your past? Why/why not?
Eventually I'd like her to know everything about me. Her age
and maturity level will dictate what I tell her and when. As far as hubby's
past... we may or may not tell her everything.. and if so she'll be a mommy
herself before she learns a lot of it.
17. Do you have any hopes for your child's activities?
(Sports, academics, school preference, activities, etc)
I would love for her to be interested in playing a musical
instrument! I hope she loves school and gets good grades and that she wants to
be in the school plays and musicals. As far as sports.. if she's interested
that's wonderful, but I won't be pushing anything on her.
18. When will you tell your baby about the birds and the
bees?
I hope to have mini conversations with her throughout her
adolescents, all age appropriate. Eventually I will tell her as much as I know,
hopefully helping her to avoid making certain mistakes and having to wait till
she's in her late 20's to learn certain things.
19. In what ways do you hope you'll parent like your parents
did? In what ways do you hope you aren't like them?
I hope that I can instill the same values my mom and
grandparents did, and to be able to have a very open relationship. My mom
always encouraged me to come to her with any problem, question or anything. It
was nice. I hope that I don't end up like my mom has in that she's very
overbearing and always has to be right. She's basically pushed me away as an
adult.
20. Which childhood memory do you hope your child will have
(similar to one you fondly remember)?
Hmm.. listening to me and her daddy tell her bedtime
stories, staying up late on the weekends and watching movies with us, playing
cards and board games with us.. basically family time. :)
21. And finally, Be annoying! What "advice" do you
want newly pregnant women to know?
Listen to your body, use common sense when choosing the
foods you eat (like certain cheeses or deli meat, caffeine especially) Don't
listen to anyone who says you are "too small" or "too big"
for the stage of pregnancy you are in.. unless it's your Dr. Enjoy the
attention you get from everyone, let your partner help around the house and
praise the job he does even if it's not up to your standards! Don't let anyone
else but you and your partner feel the baby kick. It's a special bond shared by
people who created that life.